My Experice with Bald Girl

I have seen a young but married girl with bald head today at restaurant. She is very cute. She had a 1 year baby in hand, her husband with her. But she only shaved her head, and she shaved her head 2,3 days back. It's not cleanly shaven head. But she is bald look. She and her hubby waiting in the reception area. Me also sat near by them for listen their discussion.

Initially she spoke about other things. Finally she comes my topic, yes headshave, not with me. She said to her husband how I am looking now, he said you are good. She said thanks and again I don't know how do I face my office colleagues with this look. He said don't worry no body will tease you, because you did it for god. She said I know, they won't tease me but they will look me with surprisingly and asking about my tonsure. Her hubby said, yes, obviously everybody will ask, because anybody shaved their head others will ask the reason. And they will comment about their look. So don't take this as hardly. She said yes, I know but it's difficult face others with the look.

Her hubby said, Geetu, don't worry, nothing can do right now. Your hair will grow normally only after 2 to 3 years, minimum 1 year. So we can't do anything. Also this is your wish, I am not forcing you for you on this. This is your decision. She accept and said yes, I agree, already it got late, so that only I have decided and take this hard decision. Ok nothing can do. She touches her head once again. And said actually I like my new look. But I need some moral support from others. Anyway it will go normal next week. Mean time I have to adjust for this. Also who ever see me in this look will asking about this. so that also boring for me to explain. When she discussed about this she got a call, she pick the mobile and speak, like this: yes pa. I am fine. Today morning, yes, we both came to restaurant pa. Yes good darshan pa. Yes pa, I did it. No pa he is not. Next will come pa. Pls ask mother to take care herself. surely will come next week. Inform this to mother pa. Ok she is sleeping, don't disturb pa. Bye pa.

After this she said to her hubby, Appa, he is asking about our trip and my tonsure. He invite us next week. I said ok. After this they got the seat in restaurant and they left.

How is my experience. I don't know what reason she shaved only I know is she shaved her head for vow.

My Barbershop Experience

This my experience in men's barbershop last week.

When I went to barbershop on monday early morning, nobody in the saloon. It's just opened. I am the first person who entered the saloon. Barber is cleaning the shop. When I enter he said, sir can you wait for 5 mins
I said yes. After 5 mins yes sir please come and sit in the chair. When I sat the chair. One lady came she had mid back hair. When she comes me and barber both looked her. She said want to shave her head. Barber said can you wait mam I will finish his haircut then I will do yours. I got surprised. Then I said no problem, please do her headshave first then I will cut my hair. She said thanks. And she sat in the chair. I just watching the lady. She got married her age should be 30+. She is comes from middle class. Barber is confirmed once again her headshave. She said yes. And she started to say that she had a ear pain for long time, and she consulted with the doctor. He checked and said need to operate and remove the dust from ear. So due to her operation her head should be cut. So she comes and shaves her head. I am asking why you are not going to any temple. She said her mother in law passed away 2 months back so she should not going to temple. That's why she came here.

Also some x-ray and scanning to be need to take after the haircut. So she comes the saloon. Her husband is in abroad. She had no children. I know the lady know previously not very much but I have seen frequently. After some time barber covered her body with white cloth and free her mid back hair and spray water completely. Then he took the new blade and insert to the knife and start shaving her side portion. Her bald plait is revealed. He completed one side then he started to the next side. Her lap full of hair. She is now half bald. After few mins she completely bald. But the barber once again apply water in her bald head and starts shaving. Once he completed he said mam it's over. Then she touch her bald head and given the amount and left the place immediacy with covered her bald head.

Next is  my turn, then I spoke about women's headshave. Barber said he shaved lot of ladies and girls. This month this the first headshave. Mostly ladies comes and shave their head in the early morning because nobody will seen their headshave. They comes for lot of reasons. Some of them for dandruff, Headache, Head surgery. Hair burn. And also he said one lady in our area comes every alternate month and shaved her head. But he don't know the reason for her headshave. She is also mid aged married women. And one young girl comes her age should be 20. She came 6 months back she had a curly hair and she shaved her head due to summer.

I surprised about barber's experience. He said one young marriage women she shaved her hip length hair due to her husband's suspects her for illegal contact. When she shaved her head her hubby also came with her. Actually he insist for very short crew cut, but she herself said want to shave her head.  And one longhair women came and cut her hair upto shoulder length. But he don't know the reason about her haircut. Some of the young girls also comes for haircuts. Some time he went to the customer place and done haircut and headshave for girls and ladies. Due to shyness they won't come to saloon. He will charge extra money for this. After this incident I am planning to go to the barbershop only in early morning time.

Hope you guys enjoy my experience.

Dhivya's Vow

This is one of my college mate real life experience. I have change the name of the character.

Her name is Dhivya, she studying with me in UG in Arts college. She had a gorgeous long hair. She maintains very well. Actually her hair is curly, she straightened her hair. So she looks awesome in this. We both are good friends. In our group 2 girls and 5 guys. Everytime and everywhere we 7 of them will chat and enjoy with our college life. After semester holidays our college reopen, we are in the 2nd year. Few months later, Dhivya got sick and she is not coming to the college for more than 1 week. So our friends are going to Dhivya's house and we met her. She said she had a typhoid. so will be return the college by minimum of 30 to 45 days.

After 10 days me and other girl (Priya) went to her house. She is very sick, when we enter her room she wake and sat in the bed. Her half of her long hair is chopped to mid length. We both got shocked her look. After some discussion we asking about her hair, she said, due to fever she unable to maintain her hair, she is not took head bath for past 20 days for this. So her hair very ugly. So her mother convince Dhivya to chop her half of her hair. Now she is feeling comfortable.

After a discussion her mother came with coffee and snacks and she asking about our college, during her daughter's absence. We said everything went well, so don't worry about her study. Once she come back will take care about her syllabus. Her mother happily said ok. Then we asking about her return to college she said, it will take other 30 days. Because, now she is ok, but need bed rest. After her recovery they planning go to tirupathi for Dhivya's headshave. We both got shocked, and asking why headshave. Her mother said, I had a vow once Dhivya recover fully me and dhivya will tonsure head at tirumala. We looked Dhivya, she also smiled and said, yes guys, I will shave my head. This is my mother's wish so I should obey her wish. After a long chat we left her house.

20 days later we went to Dhivya's house again, this time her mother and Dhivya sporting a bald look. We asking about her health. Her mother said now she is normal she will be coming to college by next week. Dhivya said, we went to tirumala 2 days back only. We had a good darshan. And she gave the prasadam's to our friends. After a week Dhivya comes to college she covered her head with scarf. all of them in our class shocked with Dhivya's look. After this incident, Dhivya maintains only her like boyish haircut.

 Hope you guys will enjoy my experience.

Uma's Decision

This is a fiction not a real one.

Sonia going to her native, she slept in the afternoon 12 pm in the bus. After some time one lady sat near by Sonia. But sonia is not seen her, because she is in deep sleep. The bus stopped for lunch in some where in the highway. Then only she wakeup. When she look the near by lady, and she surprised. The is young and she shaved her head cleanly and applied sandal in her bald head. She turn and look Sonia and smiled, and sonia also smiled. Sonia asking currently which place the bus is, she replied villupuram. Then she asked sonia where you are going, sonia replied Madurai. Sonia asking the lady where you are going, she replied, me too (Madurai). Sonia then asking where you done your headshave, she replied, Vadapalani Murugan temple. Sonia asking about purpose of her headshave, she replied it's a big story, then she started her story.

My name is Uma, 3 years back I got married. My husband native is chennai, and my hometown is madurai.Actually I had a long hair. I maintained properly, and I love my long hair. Even I am not cut my hair for the past 7 to 8 years. But once I got married, everything went wrong, due to my family financial position I am going to job, and this is my 1st job. So once I joined the job I am not able to take care my hair. But I don't want to cut my hair. But my work timing won't permit me to take care my long hair. Past 6 months my hair got fallen, so I consulted a beautician, she advise me to cut my hair short. But I denied this idea. After this she gave some natural Oil for hair. I have applied also. After this my hair fallen got stopped. But the beautician said please wash your hair weekly twice, and apply this oil. So I tried this also, after this my hair fall is stopped fully.

But I tired for these process, one point of time I hate my longhair, so I want to cut short my hair. But my hubby won't accept. I tried to convince him for haircut, but he said "no way" don't cut your hair, I like your long hair. But I said my problem for my long hair. But he didn't listen anything he denied my haircut. So I stop my argument with my husband.

After 3 months, my husband want to speak to me, he want me to tonsure my head. When I heard this statement from my husband I got shocked, I said no way, I don't want to shave my head. But he said, Uma, please listen to me, I seen you are tired to keep your long hair, I don't want force you for this decision, but think about this idea, if you tonsure your head at temple, my mother will happy, then you can try whatever hairstyle, my mother won't say anything. But if you cut your hair now, my mother will scold you like anything, also I will not able to help this. So lets decide yourself.

After 3 days I thinking about this, and finally I take the decision and I informed to my husband for my headshave. He also ok with that. Then we plan for a tonsure place and date, my husband and mother in law said this is the thaipusam time so shave your head at vadapalani murugan temple, on the thaipusam day. I also accepted. Also I said, after my tonsure I want to go to madurai, and see my parents, and will stay for 1 week. My hubby and mother in law accepted this. So today morning me my mother in law and husband went to the temple, and I tonsure my head.

Sonia asking you feel bad while your tonsure your head, Uma said, Yes, I literally cried from yesterday night, but my husband convince me, today morning also I cried when the barber tonsure my long hair. But after my tonsure I got my confidence. That's why I am not wearing an scarf to hide my bald head. But I am little bit nervous to see my parents and my office friends. Sonia said, don't worry Uma, I am not seen you with long hair, but I seen you with bald look, you are very beautiful with this look. If you continues this look also you will bold and beautiful. Don't worry about others. They will also feel like me. After this long discussion they reached madurai, then they left their place.

Anitha's B(a)old New Look

This is one our friend's real life experience. His name is Gaurav (name changed for story) he is working in a private company. In his dept.  5 male employees and 2 female employees working with him. 1 female is not married her name is Nisha, other one got married her name Anita. Anita is very good looking housewife. Also she had a long hair. She maintain her hair very well, she evenly trimmed her long hair. And her hair is upto her knee. Some time she comes in loose hair she looks awesome.

Every year all of them planning their annual leave 1 week to 15 days. Except Anita everybody decided their leaves, she will decide her leave later in the month, because her child's tonsure will happen at tirumala next month. So she is plan to take that time. Everybody accepted, and took their leave with in that month except Anita.

Next month Anita also apply her leave for 10 days, and Nisha asking about Anitha's leave plan, she said, she is leaving tonight tirumala and comeback by day after tomorrow. And then she will leave her mother's house at coimbatore. She will be there at 1 week. Also she said that this is the first headshave for her child so we are planning this grand function in tirumala. Nisha asking what do you for grand function? she replied, head tonsure for child, and ear piercing and some special pooja.

After a week, Nisha called Anitha for some official clarification, she picked up, and said Hi Nisha How are you?, she said I am fine, and how about you and how the function happened?, she said  I am fine, everything went well, I am very happy now, also I will surprise you guys next week. Nisha got confused what surprise, she said, I will not tell you in telephone, I will tell you directly. After that she asking about the clarifications and she cut the call.

1 week later, everybody came, but Anitha is not yet come, Nisha thought she will join only tomorrow. by the time Anita came with big surprise….

Yes, she shaven her long hair, and she comes up with a bald head. Everybody got shocked, and asking about the reason, Anitha smiled and said, it's my long time wish, I want to shave my head at tirumala but it's not happened, when my child's tonsure we are going to tirumala I said my wish to my hubby, initially he refused, however I convince my hubby and I tonsure my head. This is my 1st headshave after 20 years. So I really enjoy myself when I am going bald. Nisha asking you are not feel bad when you lose your long hair. she said, yes, obviously, actually when the barber tonsure my head I literally cried a lot. But after my tonsure I touch my bald head and smile. It's gives me more confident. Any way I decided to shave my head every year tirumala.

Everybody appreciated Anitha's decision.

Radhika's New Look

Hi This is not a fiction, this is my experience. One of my college mate (Radhika) had a thick and long hair. Her hair is unto her waist. I like her long hair. Some time I had a chat about her long hair. She said, her mother is take care of her long hair. 6 years back she tonsure her mid back hair at tirumala, after this she didn't cut her hair. Also she likes her long hair. But she said, mostly she will tonsure her head tirumla this year. When I got this from her mouth I got shocked, I am asking why?, she replied, her mother had a vow in tirumla last year, but it's not happened, so this time she is forcing her tonsure, but she is not interested her headshave.  But it's not in her hand, unto her mother's decision. So I am eagerly waiting for the day...

After our 1 year semester holiday, I am very interested to go to college. 1st week she is not turned up. However I want to see her so me and one of my  friend went to her house, for asking the reason for the 1 week leave. When we went to her house, her mother only welcome us. she shaved her head, we asking about her headshave, she said, it's vow to tirumala. And she said wait for some time Radhika is went to shopping will be back on other 15 to 20 mins., I am asking about her 1 week leave, her mother said she is not keeping well after the travel, today only her fever got cured, she comeback to normal, so she went to shopping.

After half an hour Radhika came, she is not tonsure her head, I am very disappointed, but she chop her hair , yes she cut her hair shoulder length. She is looking different in this hairstyle. She smiled and welcome us. And she ask us to come to her room. Then I a asking about her haircut, she said, her mother don't want to shave her long hair, so she want to chop her hair, so she did it. But her sister got tonsured her head.





Overall I like Radhika's New Look.